I used to come across this expression quite a lot, but to be honest, this idea and I – we just “passed by each other” for a long time. It was about one and a half years ago when I truly received its message and could experience its power. Energy flows where attention goes. Do I really focus on the things that matter, the ones which I would like to devote energy to? Do I really focus on anything at all, or is my mind already wondering about the next things all the time?

Attention and focus are two very important tools, two very important energies in the course of the coaching process. Sometimes the clients who come to me already have in mind a specific aim, situation or a dilemma to be addressed. They are concerned about the issue and have been brooding about it for a long time, but feel stuck. There may be several reasons for this, but if we stick to our present topic – which is attention – changing or expanding the focus may be useful in such cases. That means looking at the issue from another angle, focusing on other aspects, taking a more distant perspective.

Just think about it. It is like having a torch that you have been using for a long time but only to illuminate a certain point. Then you realise that it is possible to expand the beam width so that you can illuminate a bigger area. And using it this way you see that there is a gate through the fence a little bit further away and a bridge over the ravine about a mile away. So how big is the area your torch is capable of illuminating? What opportunities or tools do you have at your disposal that you have not noticed yet?